Oh the joys of wedding planning.  I don't know how many times I have said out loud or in my head I am not going to let this wedding stress me out.... 

I don't see how with the ring they do not give men a bottle of Prozac to keep their women sane.

I am mostly getting stressed out about remembering to do things on time and on a checklist. No matter where you look you will find a variety of checklists.  Some say you must do things up to a year in advance.  I'm sorry why would I want to pick out my venue 6 month before I am engaged.  I feel like I am trying to do some crazy feat by wanting to plan a wedding in 6 months.  Well being a teacher that's when I can get married.  

I have so far seen checklists with as few as 30 items and some with as many as 121 (someone was a little OCD).  I have gotten to do some of the fun things like wedding & bridesmaid dress shopping and looked at some gorgeous venues.  But I have also been having to research photographers, florists, and DJ's, which hasn't been as exciting.  It has been a little stressful, mostly because everyone is "the Best."  So I am definitely looking forward to attending the Fort Worth Bridal Show in January.